Militaryy

Some people want to go to the military to fight for their country. Some families don't want them to go and others feel that they are brave and urge them to go. What what yo udo if someone close to you wanted to go to the military? I get why they would want to go. Some go for college money and others want to help out the war and fight for their country and stuff. It's just it hurts your family very much. The last day before your shipped off somewhere. They wonder will I ever see that person again? Will they die while fighting or will they make it? All these questions roam around the loved ones head. They worry so much because all they want is that person next to them again. I would feel frustated and worried. How would you feel and have you ever beeen in a situation like this. Tell me about it :)

A Life List

What is a life list you ask? Well, that's a list of things you promise to do as you grow up. Things like make money or bungie jump or even sky diving! It's like a to-do list. It's kind of more extreme, adventrous and fun! I think everyone should do this! I'm doing one with my bestfriend. It's really fun to come up with ideas. Things we would never dream of doing but now we are more determined to do it now. I know when I finish this list I will be very proud of myself. You would be too. It may take a while but Im doing it. A life list is one of the best kind of lists ever! My bestfriend and I made a promise to finish this list. I hope you make one too! <333

Internet Dating

Someone asked me if an internet relationship can work? Well, some people think it's just desperate and others think it's not so bad. I don't think that's the problem. The problem is if you can trust them or not. A long distance relationshipwill work if the couple doesn't have much friends or much to do. If your on the phone with them or emailing them all the time then it will work. If they have friends in real life and spend time with them. That's a different story. The relationship would be doomed from the beginning. If they go out it's extremely possible they will find someone else. They will get distracted and start forgetting about you little by litte. When they see that new person in their mind you will get pushed back father and father in their mind. They will start liking that other person more then you because they never met you in person. So, if they don't have much friends and have a lot of time on their hands. Then, yes the relationship will work. If they have a lot of friends and barely have time to speak to you on the internet. Then this relationship won't have a chance of working at all. Those are my thoughts on internet dating. What are yours?

Why are people so desperate?

"I feel so lonely, I want a man in my life!"

Why is it that sometimes we feel the need to be in a relationship?

I myself have gone through this phase before but, then I found that

being single is actually not that bad! I prefer it more than being in a relationship. When you're single,

you get to go out with your girlfriends whenever you want. You can go to parties, the movies, and just simply anywhere without stressing about whether or not there is enough of you to go around!

So for now my single ladies, don't worry about getting a man, because eventually when the time is right, you'll get one! Learn how to make yourself happy before concluding that only a man will.

Go out and have fun...once you're married, the single life is out the window!

Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

Read it. Watched it. It was amazing! x3 This is what true bestfriends doo for each other. This is the best book/movie to read/watch with your bestfriends! I was talking with one of my friends. They were having problems with their bestfriend. (About a guy) I think you should never fight over a guy. It's stupid and not worth it. If a guy actually lets you and your bestfriend fight over him. He is just looking for drama. A guy wouldn't put you in that position if he really liked youu. So, if your fighting with your bestfriend.  Try not to do it for long. One she has all your secerts and it hurts to lose someone that important to you. It really does. So don't lose your bestfriend over a stupid guy! If you do lose your bestfriend it better be a good reason. (if it is over a guy. your a bad person) >.< Lemme know what you thinkk in an email or the comments section :)

Don't Fight For Another If It Isn't Yours!

Sorry, I haven't wrote much. I've been listening to Kesha all day long. I love her song your love is my drug. I think about this one person whenever I listen to it. I know I shouldn't though because he got a girlfriend. I would never get between two people even if I liked that one person a lot. That is just really rude and not nice. Lol. You wouldn't want that to happen to you, right? I don't think so. So, I suggest don't even get in between to people. To much drama and it's not worth it sometimes. Unless your sure that you have to have that person and you can't live without them. (Obessed much? Lol) Anyways, I will try to write more interesting blogs soon. I don't really have a lot of ideas on my mind right now. Bai Bai Readers! x3

Wow...

Okay. I got this message from this guy. He was telling me about his girlfriend. His name will not be mention but I have permission to use the email he sent me.

"I'm a really nice guy but I can't stand her. She is an attention whore. She tries to make me tell her that she's pretty, when she's not. She doesn't stop. I need a break. PLEASE."

Wow. At first I was completey speechless. I never really thought about this because I did't think it happened. I think if a girl needs to be assured that she is pretty that means she is insecured. If the guy is really bothered by this and has tried to stop it. Then he should end the relationship. Girls, you can't act like this. It's not a good habit. It will only destroy your relationship. Any thoughts on this? Please sharee :)

have you ever had one boy who makes you feel totally perfect and totally imperfect at once?


if you get me.

its like i cant do wrong with him :) everything i do he just loves.

i can be myself without him thinking im weird. i love it. x333

tell me if you ever felt this way about a boy ^____^

Imperfect is the New Perfect

Today my motto is Imperfect is the New Perfect! Girls you have to stop comparing yourself to the supermodels in the magazines! They don't actually look like that. People get paid to make them look like that. I don't know why everyone does that. You should believe that what's inside will attract the guys. The guys that like you because of what's inside those are the special kind!
Nobody is perfect. Everyone knows that but they don't believe in it. You should start today! Don't try to fill in someone else's shoes because it's not worth it. Be your real yourself. Embrace your flaws! Just like Caitlin Crosby said. "If skin and bones is the secret to all your happiness. Then pop your pills cause the money is never gonna last. So save the plastic for the toys,come out your shell just make a noise." It's okay if you don't look like everyone else. Don't try too. Your beautiful! I understand if you don't feel beautiful because of all these images everywhere. Just don't compare. Everyone of every shape and size your perfect! Stop critizing yourself! It's not worth it. Just like I said before Imperfect is the New Perfect! Put this everywhere! Tweet it, Facebook it, Myspace it! Idk just let everyone else know! Please show your support by commenting! :)

OverBlogging

Okay I think I'm overblogging. If thats even a word, but I love it so much! Another issue I came across today is to date or not to date? I mean adults are always saying teens never know what or how to use the word love. Some teens aren't even allowed to date. Even though some do without their parent's permission. I asked myself today though should I date now or wait until I'm older? You have to think about three things first. Like what do your parents think? As much as you think that your parents just want you not to have any fun and just want to ruin your life. Your parents do care about you and want what's best for you. If my parents set an age for me to start dating, I will listen to what they have to say. If my parents haven't put an age limit on when it's OK for me to start dating, I will ask them. Even though my parents are old fashioned, they love me, and their job is to take care of me. Waiting until I'm older might seem like it will take forever but I think life would be a lot simpler if I can learn to trust that my parents really do want the best for me. The second thing you think about is what do you get back from dating? I think finding out what you like or don't like about a guy without a commitment is a good idea. That's what dating helps you to do. It can also be a lot of fun. Even though dating sounds like a good idea there are some bad things to it. There is a great risk of getting hurt. Dating can be distracting and ruin friendships. You know when you get a boyfriend you start hanging out less with your friends. Have you ever lost a friend because of a boyfriend? Or have you ever stop being friends with someone because they hang out too much with their boyfriend? Tell me about it. :) The third thing you have to think about before dating is can you handle having guys as friends? Dating is like getting to know a guy without a commitment. Like going out with a guy means he is yours! No sharing! Dating is different. It's having a relationship knowing it's not commiting to a lifelong relationship unless you choose too. I think you can get to know a guy better by being his friend first. There is no pressure involved and you can learn how to calm yourself around them. Plus you really got nothing to lose by just staying friends. So, when you meet someone that makes you consider whether or not you should date. Make sure you put a lot of thought into the risks and benefits! Personally, I rather not date though. I rather wait until I'm older. :) What do you think? Do you think your ready to date? Do you think there is much more things to think about when deciding to date or not? Tell me about it! :) Comment Pleasee